So basically I completed the Boethiah's sacrafice quest by using Onmund. And then ressurecting after (BECAUSE HES A MAGE, AND I TAKE CARE OF MY COLLEGE!!one11!)
But shortly after desiring to finally utilize the follower system in the game, specificly the mages with pretty flashy killin spells. J'zargo won't let me use him as a follower, the option doesn't even appear, he talks normally to me all the time when i press E, but eveuntually he says i've caused enough harm or something... Same with Onmund...

A: Why is J'Zargo being affected, I never harmed him, he never witnessed it either. (EDIT: I remember, when I came back to the college after resurrecting Onmund to see if he was there a dragon showed up and J'Zargo was killed in glorious battle, so I rez'd him.)

B: I changed the time scale in console and went for a month almost, and even after the college zone reset completely, my problem remains.

I need a solution, through the console, through regaining the trust of them... ETC. I know the theives guild lets you do it. Why not folllowers

PS: I have OCD in RPG's (Which is bad, because I end up doing things like DELETING ALL THE SAVES EXCEPT ONE FOR YOUR TWO DRAGONBORNS)
So going back to a proper save is out of the question .