Not sure if its all Daedra don't like them (well clearly Molag Bal favors them) but that point is raised by Count Hassildor of Skingrad during the Oblivion Crisis. He specifically says something to the lines of "Mehrunes Dagon and his ilk have no more love for my mind then yours. Perhaps less, as we make poor servants."
How often are zombies created by a disease yet they're undead?
A vampire does not have a disease, they even have 100% resistance to disease. Being a vampire is the end result of a disease, once you've undergone the transformation it can't be cured simply by a simple spell or visit to the temple. Only a rare few no the rituals necessary to return life to an undead body.
With how I look at them, I do not believe that Vampires are dead. They need to feed, they breathe, they sleep, and their flesh doesn't rot.
As for how in Daggerfall, when contracting vampyrism, you "die" and later wake in your crypt; Modern medicine would describe that as a coma.
No. It is death. Read all the ingame books and dialogue in the games. The vampire cure quest states the vampire is dead. When you use a detect dead spell in the game, vampires glow rather than regular people.