Does that mean we will have to start more new characters for the fixes to work?
Unfortunately it seems so. I could never get "blood on the ice" to trigger myself. The victim that is supposed to be found dead at the crime scene is Suzanne the wicked. She is alive and well in my game and lording it up in candlehearth hall. After 215 hours of gameplay and numerous visits to windhelm, the quest has failed to trigger. I was made thane of windhelm after completing the Storm Cloak civil war quest line and was told to speak to Jorlief about buying a house but he tells me that the house is unavailable due to recent unpleasant events. I cant pick the lock to Hjerm and Tova shatter-shield (whom your supposed to claim the key from once the quest starts) has committed suicide due to me killing her daughter during a dark brotherhood quest. Must add here that I killed her daughter very late on in my game and had been to windhelm numerous times before hand. The quest has never worked for me. Tried all theories suggested on the web but none have worked.
I did start a new game just to see if that was the only way to get the quest to trigger and after my 3rd visit to windhelm the quest did trigger. So it does seem that the only way to get the updates to work properly is to start a new game, which kinda blows. I do hope that bethesda manage a work-around at some point though.