Good cooks and chefs have nothing to do with gender. If you desire to be a good cook, you learn how. It's fun for anyone who enjoys it. Most great Chefs are men I believe.
I sure with my hubby would learn to cook. Two of my sons are very good cooks. One can't boil eggs.
Instant noodles and micro-waved nuggets is the most HC I've done outside of school environment. I did, however, manage to burn the water once...
Don't worry, through a trial and error style of testing, I will eventually make great food. (at least I hope, I don't want to be stuck with micro-wave pizza, burgers and noodles for the rest of my life)