May I suggest, restoration and illusion for buffing/healing your companion. Then conjuration for zombies/atronachs/dremora to help you with your battles, you can use the illusion spells to buff them to. You wouldn't need to perk illusion if you were only using the buff spells.
I think using robes would suit your character more, using alteration armor would be a good option. If you don't go with conjuration, get the atronach perk/stone to stop mages in their tracks.
Then you can just use the crafting skills as well.
Well, for RP purposes I'm not going to be raising zombies or summoning Dremora. I've kind of morphed this character idea into more of a support paladin, so raising dead to fight for me is out of the question.
I have decided to go for the Vigil of Stendarr look for my guy though, just because I think wearing robes and heavy gauntlets and boots looks really cool. Might even try a helmet if I think it looks good enough eventually. Probably just use steel plate.
I'm not going to be taking Alteration or block after all though. I'm gonna go Resto/Illusion/One-Handed with some support flame destruction for my combat type skills and then smithing and enchanting so I can give my followers the good stuff.
Not sure what you'd call it, but I think it will be fun. Inquisitor, Paladin, Battle-Mage, either way I think I'll like it.