I'd tend to agree. The most puzzling part of the khajiit was the decision to give the males lynx-like cheek fur but not the females. The females look sort've gaunt whereas the cheek fur is actually sort've "cute", especially combined with the lynx ear tufts (See my sig for an sketch example).
the males look great the females jaw just looks... weird, possibly the neck is too narrow for their heavily feline structure
(I don't remember how it were for Oblivion).
Almost impossible, face meshes have extremely complex bone system