1) Who cares if the game plays like WoW so long as they make the story engaging and the exploration is fun and exciting? World of Warcraft is doing something correctly as they still have millions of people playing. I no longer play WoW but as somebody who is equipped with a brain I understand how the MMO industry works, and that it is a business.
2) Understand that no game, not one, is catered to you specifically unless you are creating it. While it would be nice for a game to fit all of your specific criteria, this will not be the case. If there were a game out there that did, you would still be immersed in that game and not played another one since.
3) Make no mistake about this, if Bethesda thought this game would flop, they wouldn't support it.
4) In todays day and age not one MMORPG has lived up to the hype. Games like AoC and WAR were promised to be the heir of WoW and be the next MMO to maintain millions of players and then they flopped. Games like Mortal and Darkfall were so different that they would carve their own niche in the market, and a large one at that. Those sandbox games were broke. SWTOR was announced and with BioWare behind it, and EA supplying bags of gold to fund the game, and with the Star Wars IP there was no way the game would flop, right?
So, instead of declaring this game the next coming, or completely dead, why not wait a little longer before jumping to conclusions. Developers have always oversold and the players always get let down. Why don't we take a different approach as a community for once and just relax, and wait for more information, screens, videos, and a Beta before going over the top to either side of the fence?