How does I JAHO? : Othor Games

» Sun May 05, 2013 3:26 am

Yeah.. It does make me worry about my own safety and happiness. Pure madness :lol:

» Sun May 05, 2013 1:40 am

Personally I'd rather be alone anyway. I'm a very jaded and an extremely pessimistic person.

» Sun May 05, 2013 7:40 am

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» Sun May 05, 2013 9:28 am

Don't ask her right away. Get in a conversation with her, talk for a while, then when your conversation ends suggest that you continue the talk over a cup of coffee in [X] later that day.

Simplicity in itself.

» Sun May 05, 2013 1:59 am

Well if you were to use the method that all the girls who asked me out used, get your friend to ask for you. :/

But seriously, I'm not adept at the art of JAHO.

» Sun May 05, 2013 6:08 am

Yeah I've done that before, sort of regretted it after as she looked upset and realised it was genuine.

» Sun May 05, 2013 5:20 am

Buddy, by now I think we all know that...

» Sun May 05, 2013 4:53 am

You need an undergraduate degree in JAHOing.

» Sun May 05, 2013 3:01 am

You made me laugh.

» Sun May 05, 2013 12:25 am

I for one have no idea why you would arrive at that conclusion.

» Sat May 04, 2013 11:55 pm

The intent is always there.

» Sun May 05, 2013 12:31 pm

It isn't a big deal..

» Sun May 05, 2013 9:53 am

Is this thread for real? I mean, come on.

» Sat May 04, 2013 11:42 pm

Just like it sounds, just go up and ask. I did it once after emailing someone for awhile. They said no lets talk more an dmeet up first. Said ok and now I think things are going quite well. So don't let certain rejections stop you. Just stay friends and go from there.

» Sun May 05, 2013 12:55 pm

It's a secret code. Unless you get the correct sequence of words, hand signals and facial expression, it won't work.

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» Sat May 04, 2013 11:23 pm

You sneak up behind her, grab her, whisper "Come with me [censored]!" as you [censored] your gun, then take her to Carrabbas and a deep, heartwarming movie.

Speaking of movie, if you just want some action play of the kidnapping thing off as if you are an actor preparing for such a role.

And give her a smiley face. [censored]es love smiley faces.

OR, assuming you didn't run out of you house upon reading that to try it, grow a [censored] pair, approach her, and say something along the lines of "Hey, want to catch a movie tonight?", which is the definition of JAHO.

» Sun May 05, 2013 11:49 am

I apologize in advance if the following is so painfully stupid that I may inadvertently cause mental or physical harm on someone. Personally I find it amusingly stupid, and I believe it's somewhat at the core of most problems with JAHO'ing:

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A considerable load of BS, right? I feel there are people who think similar to that. I know I have ~~sometimes~~ often thought like that, how else could I have spewed such nonsense? :tongue:

I'm not sure if there's an actual name for that kind of... school of thought. Defeatism? Maybe it has a biological basis, unlikely as it is? Maybe it just isn't worth discussing?

» Sat May 04, 2013 10:15 pm

Not yet.

Thanks for all the replies everyone. I guess all I really need to worry about is actually getting the balls to ask her out and not worry about how I do it (I'm guessing that's the main point of most of these posts).

» Sun May 05, 2013 9:33 am

You have probably heard it a thousand times ajd that is because it is a thousand times true. Women like confidence and having the balls to ask them out is one damned good way of showing it.