Dude, if she does break up with him for you she's a bad person. In fact she is already a bad person for going behind her BF like that playing around with you, so why the heck do you even want to be with a girl with such questionable morals ?

Just forget about her and her broken ethics, she's not worth it. You should be able to see that for yourself, even if she does start with you she will just start playing around with someone else behind your back too.

I've definitely considered that. In fact, half of me actually hopes she just gets away from me. I'm sick of her BS. Sure will svck not having her around next semester though....

I've definitely considered that. In fact, half of me actually hopes she just gets away from me. I'm sick of her BS. Sure will svck not having her around next semester though....

You don't wait for a sign though. You just..do it.

Set yourself on fire, you can't hurt you're girlfriends feelings if you're on fire.

Well, if this is a girl problem venting thread, I might as well throw in my two cents. I just finished my first semester of college, and this girl and me have been attached by the hip and spend all our free time together and have both admitted to having feeling for each other. There's only one problem: she has some [censored] boyfriend a state away that she got into a relationship with a month before school started and says she "can't choose between us" and won't dump his ass. So here we are acting like we're dating when we're not. I could live with it before because it felt like we were and he was never around, but over Christmas break, her boyfriend came to visit and all I see over Facebook is pictures of her with her arms wrapped around her ugly boyfriend and posting about how great he is and celebrating their "five months together." I almost, quite literally, threw up. This has been going on all week, and when we get back to school, I'm making her choose between me and that [censored]. And the sad part is, I don't think she's going to break up with him, so unless she does, I'm done with her and her garbage. I can't be strolled along thinking she's my girlfriend when she clearly favors her "bunny." UGH.

Oh yeah, and one more detail: she and I did it the day before we left for vacation, and she still hasn't dumped him. So unless she breaks up with that tool, I don't want to see her again. At all. I'm sick of being teased like this.

Well, there's my story. Felt good to at least rage to a bunch of strangers. XD

It seems I need to be 'strict' with her sometimes. That's kind of a new thought.

It seems I need to be 'strict' with her sometimes. That's kind of a new thought.

It seems I need to be 'strict' with her sometimes. That's kind of a new thought.

When a woman tells you this, you know you've hit the jackpot, I'd give you some advice on what to do but it would most likely get me banned if I said it here.

Yeaah so yesterday I texted her to stop being a baby and talk to me. We talked, flirted a little and now we're together again.
I think it's me who dramatisizes things after all.
It seems I need to be 'strict' with her sometimes. That's kind of a new thought.

Well, not to rain on your parade, but the bigger issue is she seems very immature and "expects" you to behave a certain way. Actually, and this is not meant to be offensive, you both seem pretty young. "What we have here is a failure to communicate." If you are constantly being tested (even though you don't know it is a test) and failing, until you push back with this so-called "Strictness", then you probably aren't really communicating. A good relationship will always have its ups and downs, but what you described in your opening post was rather princess-y behavior on her part, and then you are scrambling to make up for something you aren't even sure you did... You both need to stop that kind of behavior if you plan on sticking together for a long haul. Otherwise, my bet is you will simply eventually just get exhausted.