That's still an observable phenomenon, isn't it? And besides, the majority are saying "X... but if I had to, then A/B". Also, it's a lot easier to ignore those posts yourself, rather than command an entire battalion of people to ignore the thread.

It's even easier if there was a poll for A & B, and the OP ignored the requests for a X

The first, people are not posessions, and love is not the same exact experience for each person. I have been in open relationships that were quite successful. We were able to discover things about each other that emotion derived from six could blind us to. six does NOT equal love. Couples in love can reach incredibly emotional highs during copulation, and it can have the benefit of strenghtening the relationship. It can also have the unwanted effect of destroying the relationship, with insecurity, jealousy, fear. Be with someone because you want to, not because you are bound to. If marriage was so damn sacred, why do so many couples divorce?
I would not marry anyone I felt nothing for, in fact, I am not the marrying kind. The fact that I married my husband is testament to his incredibly wonderful personality , ability to communicate, and listen.