First of, I feel pretty similar, but as you said, to each his own.
Actually it provides quite some amusemant, because laughing is really the only thing I can do when seeing anime girls in skimpy clothing and hair that looks as if they just spend half a day in a beauty salon running through an post-apocalyptic wasteland (or Skyrim).
Buster swords are really just the cherry on top...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPDb1t0TDIs
...ahh, the fine art of sword-fighting...
I would really only get angry if for some reason (western) developers started to take inspirations from that anime stuff.
Re: realism nvde-vs-underwear:
Why would I want to strip a sweaty Raider from his filthy underwear?
