look at how i type then re-read my post.
i am all for proper grammar, grammar saves lives(the difference between "Let's eat, Grandma" and "Let's eat Grandma"

). but this is a fun forum as i understand, no? so i think it should be OK to relax some. i use this forum, facebook and some other places to unwind from grammar police, school grammar demands, and just regular stress that comes with grammar demands. if people can understand you, then you are cool. should be cool. that's how i see. it does not hurt anyone. if i don't use upper case letters, it just takes extra effort for the reader to deduce that the sentence starts here or there and it saves me from having to reach for that shift button(this takes some toll off the fingers for me, good for my health, and it leaves the reader with a mental exercise, a good mental work out. but then again, it does force people into mental work that they may not want to deal with at that time... maybe i do need to re-think this... sigh, here i am trying to make a case for why it should be fine to not be as grammatically perfect as elsewhere, but it turns out i just came up with reasons why grammar should be followed(to avoid hurting people). eh, nuts.i guess i should at least make the first letter of the sentence upper case. I am not not giving up on using lower case i if it is mid sentence though.