Ha yes I'm aware and I never said all women, just most women that I've encountered...I also said that gamer girls such as yourselves here are exempt because you're above average and unlike the women that I was referring to. Most of you ladies won't be found on the club dance floors, fixing your makeup at stop lights and all that typical nonsense of the type of ladies that I can't stand. Fact is though that most women tend to be emotional creatures and even the most intelligent women have fallen victim to thinking with their hearts.

Ha yes I'm aware and I never said all men, just most men that I've encountered...I also said that gamer guys such as yourselves here are exempt because you're above average and unlike the men that I was referring to. Most of you guys won't be found passed out in dirty club bathrooms, harassing women at stoplights, living in their parents basemants at 35 and all that typical nonsense of the type of men that I can't stand. Fact is though that most men tend to be stupid jerks and even the most kind men have fallen victim to thinking with their dikes.

Seriously man, cut it out. "Women are emotional lol" is so 19th century and says far more about you than about any woman.

Sorry Haggar, even that assumption is erroneous. One of my exes was a real party girl and she is who got me into going to gaming forums and was more of a hardcoe gamer than myself. For all you or I know Lady Nerevar and the other ladies on this forum do go to parties and hit up clubs, fixing their makeup at stop lights and all that typical nonsense. Intelligence is no guarantee of controlling your emotions any better than a 'dumb' person either.

Guilty

There was a few times while drunk...though I am not sure it would be considered harassing...

Very guilty of this.

Starting to feel like a bibliography...

Sometimes two heads isn't better than one...

Eh...have you been out lately? Still very much a commonly held belief.

ha but see the stereotypes are still alive and well for both sixes...the poster below you agrees with some of what you wrote just as some of what I wrote applies to the average woman

once again I never said all, I said most or many as in a majority because lets face it, a majority of people still live up to stupid stereotypes

The point is that it's a false belief and people shouldn't still be sprouting this stuff, especially in a help thread. Frankly, I can't see how thinking that all women are irrational and impossible to understand will ever land someone a lady that is anything but a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Meh, I would say a vast majority still ascribe to stupid stereotypes and therein lies the problem.

I know. My post actually supported your claim. Albeit in a roundabout way. The sword cuts both ways though. When it comes to romantic endeavors, at least in my experience, most people get frustrated and their ego tells them something that is hard is in reality impossible so that they do not feel bad about it. Like understanding why girls want the toilets seat to always be down when it takes next to no effort to put it down if it is up.

^ That actively annoys me.

We have stereotypes because in general, people do tend to live up to them or at least parts of them. Women ARE more emotionally driven than men, but that doesn't mean all women are emotional train-wrecks. Just because we process information differently isn't some genetic defect. I'm probably not the best person to be talking about it though because I dislike most women I meet... so, I have to agree that some - SOME - women are drama queens with severe mood swings. And we all know that the loud and obnoxious people get noticed and the quiet normal ones don't - so what most men see or at least remember about women are the crazy ones.

There are anologues of those in men as well. I call bull[seht] that women are more emotional though. We just act on different types of emotions. I would say women are pftentimes more empathetic. But not more emotional. I think that is data that would be hard to support for either six. Case in point, angry dudes. We show our emotion through anger in a variety of ways. Have you thrown your game controller through a wall? Broken bones in your body while angry? Probably not. The way we express and internalize our emotions is different, but not our level of emotion.

Meh, probably should stay off this topic though.

ha that's true as well as the crazy ones definitely stand out in my memory.
I agree that women are generally more emotionally driven but that doesn't mean every woman's an emotional mess or drama queen, they just tend to feel more about things then the average man which also means women are generally more empathetic and caring but that's natural because women are the child bearers so nature makes them that way.

Oh, so this is where the party's at?


My lord, that was hard to read

You're welcome!

Too late now to do anything.

Next time, instead of asking for her number, let her know what a great time you had, and give her your number.

This takes the on-the-spot pressure off of her. It's quite stressful, wondering if a potential recipient is the creepy kind who thinks, formaldehyde on a cloth, [censored] jokes, facebook stalking, and the like are amusing. They are not.

Giving her your number also shows that you respect her bounds of privacy, that you have confidence, and that you are willing to continue the friendship if she is amenable to it.

I have refused to give my number to many a man. I have, however, called ninety percent of the men who gave me their number.

Yeah. I'm pretty sure that's part of the problem. Asking for a bro's phone number is one of the most awkward things in the world for me anyway.

No! I am not a stalker, it's not like I look them up on Facebook and go through their pictures..... actually can you even do that? I don't know I don't have a Facebook, it seems creepy if people can.

I wish I had this gift, sadly I do not. I also wish I gived a rat's butt about getting girls, but I don't. I figure the right girl will come to me when the time is right.

You should' have been like, "well I've gotta go now ... I've got an early day ahead of me tomorrow. What steps can we take to continue our conversation tonight?"

And then she would've obviously suggested something like a number.

Not sure if sarcasm is in your post or not but I will just assume no as it isn't obvious. Wasn't saying you were a stalker just making light of your comment. Yes there is even a term for people going through peoples pictures and stuff on Facebook, although it isn't the most creative term. They call it Facebook stalking and it can be very awkward as a LOT of people do it. I think I did it once or twice and immediately stopped because it made me feel dirty and weird. Best to develop your opinion on someone based on personal experience.

Gift or curse it is all relative. It entirely depends on the girls that are going to you. Or if you are interested in a relationship or casual six at the time. I enjoyed the feeling in Highschool(although it wasn't THAT often) but then I got over it before graduating and now I am pretty glad that level of attention isn't leveled my way.

Ay gurl lemme get dem digits.

Being clear and speaking somewhat properly works much better...especially if you are white lol.