1. No. This is not GW2. Go play that if you want to fight a random mixed bag of races alongside another random mixed bag of races, because it's neither realistic nor pretty so that needs to stay out of ESO.
2. No. I don't want to have to go through the same damn leveling content everytime I make an ALT or end up exploring level 10 content as max level pointlessly just so I can cross the sights off of my damn bucket list.
3. Yes sure, they'll totally change all of the lore and a major gameplay mechanic that they've been advertising and talking about since the unveiling simply because you and a few others feel you're entitled to have the game tailored too you. yeah THAT'S going to happen.
4. The developers have chosen to primarily cater to the other side of the coin from yours, either live with it or move on, TES: 6 will be out in a few years time.
Small note, don't bring up the Skyrim civil war bit because not only was that a piss poor questline with the most unrealistic war theme I've seen in a game in years, it's also a completely baseless and illogical argument because how your race affected NOTHING in that game was one of the games major issues.
This thread will also more than likely be locked once it's been brought to a moderators attention.