A friend of mine told me that Bethesda games are usually unfinished and full of bugs when they launch and that I should wait 3-6 months before buying it. Also, we saw almost no gameplay footage of the PS3 version (the version I want to buy) and the fact that the game will have a day one patch is a little bit scary... Also does the game still have that auto-leveling for enemies/dungeons that Oblivion had? I didn't like this since there was no way to farm outside a dungeon just to come back and wipe it easily.
1. Your friend doesn't know very much about Bethesda games. 2. That's because Bethesda made a licensing deal with Microsoft for pre-release footage to be made exclusively on the 360. Not only that, it's reportedly easier to screencap/make live demonstrations on etc. etc. But, if you really wanted to find footage there are plenty of less-than-legal screenshots and videos on the internet. 3. A lot of modern games have a day one patch. Skyrim will not be perfect on release but if you and your friend had done research, you would have read articles saying how solid the experience was even in beta. In one article they mentioned that it felt more finished in beta than most released games. 4. The monsters are like in morrowind, if I'm not mistaken. Certain areas have higher level monsters. However, with the dynamic quest system, it will create a conditional experience. So, if you're level 1, the quest you do will bring you to a level 1 dungeon that you have not yet explored.