I don't have a choice. Like every Christmas ever I don't have a choice to celebrate or not.
One day I'll be where I won't have to do it. No useless crap to give to people who don't care, no expensive decorations, no silly WAY too expensive food.
Relatives. Hate relatives. Hate children. Hate sleeping on the couch to make room for relatives.
The whole thing is silly. Celebrate the supposed birth of some religious figure 2,000 years ago (even though we don't know the actual supposed day) by cutting down a tree and sticking it in your living room like some crazed barbarian. Then we get to carefully, meticulously recreate baby boomer's childhoods by replaying the same few christmas songs and cartoons over and over and over again every year.
Hey Mr. Grinch! Those same old Christmas songs are all apart of the Christmas spirit you should be having! It's been a consumerist holiday for a long time now and that's something you gotta ignore or else it can spoil everything. I think giving gifts is a good thing, most of the time people forget why they give them. It's to warm the soul of the person you give them too, to see that smile on their face. But most people don't look at it that way anymore. And relatives, well sure a lot of them can be a big pain as well as the children..but you only see them so often. I just try to make the best of it, I really like to see my relatives though..even if they can be annoying. I rather have annoying relatives than none at all. Religious reasons aside (which is the MAIN reason my family celebrates it), it's all supposed to be about family getting together and seeing each other again..catching up and enjoying the company of your loved ones because you never know when they might not be there. Something you should be doing all the time of course, but that can't always happen. That and the religious reasons behind it are what made it a staple, corporations came and made it a staple you'll never get rid of because there is too much money to be made off silly (I agree with you there) people. But regardless I have fun..and wish you could have it as well.
I refer you to Foamy for my gripes... I'm one of these so called Humbuggers... The only reason I celebrate this holiday at all is for my kids... I don't feel that they should be deprived just because I don't care for what the holiday has become... Don't get me wrong, I know the Christmas Spirit still exists but it's just so rare these days that I find the holiday isn't what it's supposed to be anymore... http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=_YuqNMoavpA
I know how you feel, but try to look past it. I got older so I don't really get many gifts anymore, but I like giving them and I like spending time with my family celebrating something we believe in. I try to take in the non consumeristic (not a word!) parts of the seasons. The weather, the decorations, the overall feeling it brings me. To keep that alive, you gotta try to keep it inside you as well! Then it becomes a little bit less rare.
I see the family I'm going to be seeing on Christmas-eve, all the time. I see the family I'll be seeing on Christmas day a few times a year. But both sets of family (well half of them are the same from Christmas-eve) all have a different' attitude at this time of year and most of them are a lot more joyful and it's basically like a gathering you'd have every weekend..except since I see them so few times (well except my immediates) there's a lot more to talk about than if I saw them all the time. That's part of what makes it special for me too. I see my grandparents quite often..usually once a week though sometimes once every other week..but seeing them during Christmas is a bit different for a reason I can't explain. There's just a different attitude flowing.
But yeah I'll stop being a devoted fan now and don't take me too personally Steampunk I'm not trying to get on your case or anything.