First I would mention: Mount & Blade any of the games in that series is better than skyrim. Combat is better, battles are bigger, you can own your own business and I would even say that romance is deeper. Though I guess the game is not really fantasy in the magic and monsters kind of way, but the realm it is set in is made up, well With fire and sword is set in our world, but the other two.
Baldurs gate and Icewind dale etc. Great story, a huge variety of monsters, lovable characters etc. If you are a graphics person however, this might not be a game for you as it is rather old.
MInecraft, HUGE open world, you can look like just about anything, great unique fantasy setting with multiple reals such as the nether and the end.
There you have five games already.
And you said the Hanzo sword of gaming and that's way bigger than just open world fantasy RPGs so there I would also like to mention:
the STALKER series, great games, great setting, good sotry. Dawn of War, well this is an RTS, but it's very entertaining and has a great sci-fi, fantasy (there are orcs and magic and stuff) setting. I could go on about this.
And I see that you just talked about a unique experience from skyrim, you will be really hard to peruade as the experience from skyrim is unique, just like any other game. No other game have ever had the TES feel mixed with meh before. Don't get me wron skyrim is a good game, just not a good TES game.
But as I said every game has it's own unique feeling, but the games I listed above are just a few non-bethesda I can think of that feels "better" than Skyrim IMO.
Correction, Skyrim is a better RPG than anything that is released nowadays. There are plenty of old RPGs that are still available.
