Haven't they been?
1) Hero Engine OH EMM GEE - Actually, we aren't using Hero Engine.
2) ONLY THURD PERSIN?!! NO ZUUUM? - Actually, yes you can zoom into first person.
3) The world doesn't look like TES. - Video releases and the worlds do indeed look very ES-ish.
4) The Kotaku screen that shows a WoW UI kills the game for me - We have a minimalistic UI.
5) Hotbar combat doesn't work in ES. - The way it is being done is a very nice alternative.
Things keep popping up that get people mad, they keep proving people wrong.
What was the new one? How can they say it isn't possible to do housing? - Oh wait, we can, it just isn't a priority.
2) Not...really, you can zoom in, but you can't see arms or spells. : /
4) A UI that we haven't seen.
5) Combat that's left almost every reporter who's seen it disappointed.
Huh, don't you just love it when devs say exactly the opposite thing? Even the fact that it isn't a priority is a bad sign, this game is getting more and more themepark.