But mods should not be the answer to fix these things.
I'm really tired of the mod this and mod that. The fact that we need to mod this much to get in the game what should have been in the game is ridiculous in itself. And the fact that I a on a 360 and cannot access these mods, these mods don't really help me.
If that's the case then you have to ask yourself: "Can I keep playing a game that has not been developed to my personal and specific taste"?
Since you do not have the ability to MOD then everytime an NPC fails to acknowledge you as "Arch Mage", "Dragon Born", "Companion" or whatever then you need to create a reason for that which helps you to qualify such an oversight.
The fact that most Nords distrust magic and have absolutely nothing to do with the College of Winterhold is certainly a good excuse for the rest of Skyrim failing to acknowledge you as ArchMage.
It's no big leap of the imagination to surmise that the rest of Skyrim has not been given an update on your "Dragonborn status" as well.
Could they have done things differently?
Certainly.
Could they have done things better?
Opinion.
As I mentioned above though the point of the game is to entertain.
So when I say "Try not to let it spoil your game" I mean it.
Try not to look at is as fanbois call to overlook Bethesda's crimes against gamers...
But rather one gamer trying to help another get the most out of their game.
If you can't, I can accept that.
Az