This doesn't seem like a good little pony : Othor Games

» Tue May 15, 2012 1:33 am

She's still at school? Who cares? She's young enough that she will learn sooner or later. If she were 30 and doing this stuff I'd say something. As it is, let her make her own decisions. To be perfectly honest it's none of your business. How is she supposed to learn the ins and outs of relationships if you control what she does in them? If her talking to you about it annoys you so much, svck it up and ignore it when she starts talking. "Really?!", "No! He's terrible!" and "You deserve better" are good lines to keep to hand when you realise she's stopped talking and is waiting for you to respond. That's what most men do to most women anyway.

She's n college. he seems nice enough but whenever she dates she goes too fast too soon. i've never said anything about it but if this blows up it'll be bad.

It's really not your business. After she breaks up with him and before she starts dating someone else, you may be able to have a discussion with her, but now is not the appropriate time to say something. And what does the guy's nationality have to do with any of this?

She has a weird fetish.

» Mon May 14, 2012 5:42 pm

When your relationship ends, you can destroy dogtags, I wouldn't recomend destroying tatoos

Well, you can, but it's painful and creates scarring.

» Tue May 15, 2012 3:43 am

I wouldn't suggest saying or doing anything, if it ends badly at least she has you to console her, if it doesn't then all is well in the world. Seems like a win/win to me.

» Tue May 15, 2012 4:13 am

I wouldn't suggest saying or doing anything, if it ends badly at least she has you to console her, if it doesn't then all is well in the world. Seems like a win/win to me. :smile:

She never talks to me about stuff like that anymore. Always someone else.

» Tue May 15, 2012 2:36 am

And what does the guy's nationality have to do with any of this?

You know how some people are obsessed with Russians? If one such person has a habit of diving into relationships way too fast, the other party happening to be Russian would only exacerbate things, no?

Replace "Russian" with "Mexican" and you'll have the reason his nationality is relevant.

» Tue May 15, 2012 3:25 am

She never talks to me about stuff like that anymore. Always someone else.

Oh I see, then that's surely even more reason to just let her get on with it... I got the impression you were close?

» Mon May 14, 2012 10:49 pm

Oh I see, then that's surely even more reason to just let her get on with it... I got the impression you were close?

Yeah. we don't talk as much as we used to though.

» Mon May 14, 2012 8:00 pm

But love after 20 days is kinda crazy.

Passion isn't rational. One of the advantages of being young is that you can afford to be a little crazy.

» Tue May 15, 2012 5:36 am

just let it be, is it really your business?

Yeah I say let it be, let it beeee. But has she been hurt before in a relationship? Eventually people will not listen when it comes to friendly advice. So if so, your gonna have to let her get hurt and hopefully she'll learn her lesson.

» Tue May 15, 2012 8:05 am

She's one of my best friends. we've called eachother family.

Translated to, "I really fancy her, but she doesn't fancy me."

amirite!?

» Tue May 15, 2012 8:18 am

Oi this gives me a headache.

I honestly wouldn't say anything unless the guy is actually abusive in some way. Let people be stupid. I understand she's your friend and you don't want her to slip away, but it doesn't mean that she's going to stop talking to you just because of this guy. Friendships change, and it can't always change in a way you want it to. Sometimes you have to accept the phases your friends will go through, no matter how irrational they seem to you. Just remaining supportive is the best thing you can do. You'll only lose her in the end if you voice your concerns too often.

» Tue May 15, 2012 2:37 am

My opinion is that, even if you think its not a great idea or whatever, maybe you're looking at it wrong, and maybe she's got the right idea; you never really know. Of course, from just this, I think its silly and I agree with your concern. However, the most you can do is tell her your opinion on it, but only an opinion, where, if an argument begins to start or what else, you should stop. That's all you can really do while still being respectful, I think.

» Tue May 15, 2012 2:49 am

What's the problem?
A dogtag is a dogtag, it ain't her soul or a tattoo :shrug:

So what if she falls head over heels for every guy next month coming, it's her lesson to learn.
If you were her friend and not trying to get with her, you'd realise that she should figure this out on her own and you shouldn't get in the way of the relationship while it's still going, be a friend and help her pick up the pieces then tell her where she went/goes wrong - but do it in a nice way and not a "see, told you so!" kind of way.

» Tue May 15, 2012 12:59 am

The vibe I'm getting is that you've been "friend-zoned" and you don't quite want to admit it.

I think the best thing to do is to move on if that's the case, because unless she's really fit I don't see the point in pursuing it.

Might be a total misjudgment of the situation by me though.

» Mon May 14, 2012 10:11 pm

So yeah, my friend has been dating this guy for less then 3 weeks and she had a dogtag thingy made today that says such and suuch loves such and such. this girl movves really fast in her relationships. but idf i say something she'll get mad but i don't want her to get hurt. what can ido?

Mind your own business and let her live her life. If it is such an issue dealing who she dates, their nationality, her types and preferences, and with her emotions after she gets hurt, then perhaps you need to rexamine what your motives are in this "friendship".

» Tue May 15, 2012 5:20 am

Get her to play Skyrim.

» Tue May 15, 2012 2:10 am

Translated to, "I really fancy her, but she doesn't fancy me."

amirite!?

Lol no. we've been friends since we were 13. and i have a girlfriend. i don't really want to date my sister

What's the problem?
A dogtag is a dogtag, it ain't her soul or a tattoo :shrug:

So what if she falls head over heels for every guy next month coming, it's her lesson to learn.
If you were her friend and not trying to get with her, you'd realise that she should figure this out on her own and you shouldn't get in the way of the relationship while it's still going, be a friend and help her pick up the pieces then tell her where she went/goes wrong - but do it in a nice way and not a "see, told you so!" kind of way.

That's good advice.

The vibe I'm getting is that you've been "friend-zoned" and you don't quite want to admit it.

I think the best thing to do is to move on if that's the case, because unless she's really fit I don't see the point in pursuing it.

Might be a total misjudgment of the situation by me though.

See first reply.

Get her to play Skyrim.

She plays Assassin's Creed that's the best i can do.