This doesn't seem like a good little pony : Othor Games

» Tue May 15, 2012 2:23 am

So yeah, my friend has been dating this guy for less then 3 weeks and she had a dogtag thingy made today that says such and suuch loves such and such. this girl movves really fast in her relationships. but idf i say something she'll get mad but i don't want her to get hurt. what can ido?

» Tue May 15, 2012 12:45 am

Better a "dogtag thingy" than a tattoo. Chances are you can't do a thing. Just to have to let it run its coures. It's what do always do.

» Tue May 15, 2012 4:15 am

But stop her is she wants a tattoo.

» Tue May 15, 2012 7:21 am

just let it be, is it really your business?

» Mon May 14, 2012 10:25 pm

But stop her is she wants a tattoo.

That's sad. i can draw the line and say somethin at tattoo

» Tue May 15, 2012 6:37 am

just let it be, is it really your business?

She's one of my best friends. we've called eachother family.

» Tue May 15, 2012 5:22 am

Tell her "I don't want to know about it." As a friend it can be hard, but if she wants you to meet the guy and talks about him all the time, and there is a new guy every couple of months then it can get annoying. More so when you know it isn't going to work out.

» Tue May 15, 2012 2:18 am

Tell her "I don't want to know about it." As a friend it can be hard, but if she wants you to meet the guy and talks about him all the time, and there is a new guy every couple of months then it can get annoying. More so when you know it isn't going to work out.

It's always a new guy every couple of month's. but the new guy at the moment supposedly loves her too. and i'm hearing somethin about a 10 dollar stuffed Tiger he bought her. just ridiculousness. this isn't gonna go anywhere good.

» Mon May 14, 2012 6:39 pm

It's always a new guy every couple of month's. but the new guy at the moment supposedly loves her too. and i'm hearing somethin about a 10 dollar stuffed Tiger he bought her. just ridiculousness. this isn't gonna go anywhere good.

Yeah I know the feeling. Tell me does she meet these guys on sites like "Plenty of Fish?" cause that makes it even more annoying.

» Tue May 15, 2012 4:30 am

Yeah I know the feeling. Tell me does she meet these guys on sites like "Plenty of Fish?" cause that makes it even more annoying.

Nah her school. and sometimes at our youth group.

» Tue May 15, 2012 6:37 am

When your relationship ends, you can destroy dogtags, I wouldn't recomend destroying tatoos

» Mon May 14, 2012 9:01 pm

Nah her school. and sometimes at our youth group.

Seems better than dating sites. Cause most guys I know don't go on there to find a girl friend if you get what I am saying.

Some people just get infatuated way to easily and it can get annoying. More so when they want you to meet the guy and be friends and you have to hear all about it. Worse when you know the guy is a total ass. Gets worse still when it contradicts everything she has ever told you. Example: say she tells you she doesn't like guys with tattoos, and then she dates a guy practically with them. :banghead:

Just let it run its course, as long as she isn't doing anything to stupid or dangerous then let it go.

» Tue May 15, 2012 6:09 am

You should let her handle her own relationships.

If things end badly, then things end badly. That's how dating works.

» Tue May 15, 2012 12:17 am

Seems better than dating sites. Cause most guys I know don't go on there to find a girl friend if you get what I am saying.

Some people just get infatuated way to easily and it can get annoying. More so when they want you to meet the guy and be friends and you have to hear all about it. Worse when you know the guy is a total ass. Gets worse still when it contradicts everything she has ever told you. Example: say she tells you she doesn't like guys with tattoos, and then she dates a guy practically with them. :banghead:

Just let it run its course, as long as she isn't doing anything to stupid or dangerous then let it go.

Yeah i do know what you mean. it doesn't help that he's Mexican either. she's obsessed with Mexican's.

» Mon May 14, 2012 8:25 pm

Yeah i do know what you mean. it doesn't help that he's Mexican either. she's obsessed with Mexican's.

That's not racist at all.

» Tue May 15, 2012 5:48 am

That's not racist at all.

Racism is hating other races. we both have a mutual friend who is a Mexican if we were both dying and she could save one of us, she would save him. and i've known her longer

it's just a wierd fetish.

» Tue May 15, 2012 7:52 am

Racism is hating other races.

You said "Doesn't help that he is mexican". That is usually a negative thing, implying that it would help if it was any other race.

» Tue May 15, 2012 3:35 am

You said "Doesn't help that he is mexican". That is usually a negative thing, implying that it would help if it was any other race.

She might not be as obsessed if he was say white.

» Mon May 14, 2012 6:20 pm

It's just a dog tag. Probably didn't cost more than a couple dollars. If it goes wrong, she throws it away. Nothing much lost.

» Tue May 15, 2012 9:06 am

Seems like you either:

1. Have genuine concerns for her safety, emotional, physical or mental;
2. Actually are jealous of this guy, subconsciously. So every little thing starts to bug you about this guy or her relationship with him.

» Mon May 14, 2012 10:26 pm

It's just a dog tag. Probably didn't cost more than a couple dollars. If it goes wrong, she throws it away. Nothing much lost.

But love after 20 days is kinda crazy.

Seems like you either:
1. Have genuine concerns for her safety, emotional, physical or mental;
2. Actually are jealous of this guy, subconsciously. So every little thing starts to bug you about this guy or her relationship with him.

I'm concerned for her emotional safety. whenever she breaks up with someone or gets dumped she loses them as a friend. and almost always get's depressed. if it works out great. but it just seems to be going a little too fast for anyone's good.

» Mon May 14, 2012 11:52 pm

Your concerns, while true, may not (and probably will not) be welcome. I'd advise to to stay clear, hope for the best, and mind your business

» Tue May 15, 2012 6:20 am

She's still at school? Who cares? She's young enough that she will learn sooner or later. If she were 30 and doing this stuff I'd say something. As it is, let her make her own decisions. To be perfectly honest it's none of your business. How is she supposed to learn the ins and outs of relationships if you control what she does in them? If her talking to you about it annoys you so much, svck it up and ignore it when she starts talking. "Really?!", "No! He's terrible!" and "You deserve better" are good lines to keep to hand when you realise she's stopped talking and is waiting for you to respond. That's what most men do to most women anyway.

» Tue May 15, 2012 3:26 am

You said "Doesn't help that he is mexican". That is usually a negative thing, implying that it would help if it was any other race.

'Mexican' is a nationality, not a race. Hence, not racism.

» Tue May 15, 2012 3:53 am

It's really not your business. After she breaks up with him and before she starts dating someone else, you may be able to have a discussion with her, but now is not the appropriate time to say something. And what does the guy's nationality have to do with any of this?