This I agree with whole heartedly, but the thing I could never wrap my head around is people playing re-runs for the want of a better term, in Skyrim there is no second chance when creating your character, so it means you have to go through the tutorial every time you start a new character, that would very quickly get old for me personally, and I'd throw my keyboard at the monitor if I just lost a 100 hour character.
That is exactly why I got so addicted to DID characters. Its the hart pounding excitement I get from close calls, knowing it could all end. It brings the game to a whole new level. You get deeper into it than normal and pay closer attention to what you are doing. You actually THINK before you just run into a cave willy-nilly. You plan more and play better. It took just one time, for me to get hooked. This was playing FONV, where I had been several time over. I'm currently going through Oblivion with one.
Hell, we even have a thread, with a graveyard, listing all the fallen characters of players.http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1250157-the-oblivion-dead-is-dead-thread-ii/ Still, I have been through Oblivion again and again. Playing DID, in a game you know by heart, fails in comparison to going through a new game completely blind. I can't wait.
Was I upset when I lost my first character? Damn right I was. But it was due to my own stupidity. After that, if I tried to continue any character, it made me feel dirty. Like I was using an exploit. The character lost all it's meaning, and I lost all interest in continuing.