Depends. No I say Asian, I do however say black. Not to people if I know their names, then I use their name.
I don't think you understand where the term African American comes from or why it was coined.
There are many reasons why the term was coined, but one of the reasons is, a lot of people don't know their roots, as their ancestors were brought from Africa as slaves, and they have no idea where exactly their ancestors came from, they just know they came from somewhere in Africa. Any other ethnic group, they know their roots, they know where they came from: Italians, Irish, etc etc etc etc.