Well he mentions that he likes her sister. How many in-game NPCs are there to marry that have a sister? That might be a relatively decent clue as to her identity. He also asks if her family will hate him meaning his wife has a family in-game.

So....any ideas?

Perhaps my dark lord, Molag-Bal?

Maybe he's embarrased as to whom he has married.

I understand now! Obviously his post was code. He is very clearly a Dark Elf who secretly Married Rolff Stone-Fist. The "sister" he speaks of is obviously Galmar.

Someone tell me I'm not wrong on this.

This made me laugh.

This sounds pretty realistic actually.

Of course marriage is supposed to be a "one-shot deal" in real life too, but many seem to of forgotten that.

That wouldn't be so bad, but some people don't seem to realize that a real life divorce doesn't involve a war hammer...

Suggestion:

Save game before you marry her(or him).

Marry, and enjoy the wedding

Go to your house(preferably a house where you don't live on top of eachother(you know what I mean . Have your own space so to speak.

Take time off from adventuring. Have a romantic and peaceful honeymoon where you avoid big quests for a while. Except for the ocational romantic stroll in the woods with your loved one, where you can kill rabbits and foxes and share meat and pelts. Eat lots af great dinners with beef and salmon and whatnot, talk and read some books together and don't forget sleep well together.

Do this a couple of days, and I will guarantee you that you will know if this the ONE. If you are dissapointed, reload the save. In this way there's no dungeons or ruins that you have to do again if you choose to reload.

Happy wedding!