I finally put my finger on what bugs me in this game.
After 30 minutes of being a [censored] looser, captured by the imperials and sentenced to a death that nobody will care about since I'm just an anonymous looser in this harsh world... I suddenly become superman (dragonborn), and I have to save the world.
What I loved in morrowind/oblivion (didn't play earlier elder scrolls) is that I saved the world, of course, but I felt I chose to be that hero who would go on and kill things but in the end I was just like any other guy in the world, just better and motivated.
In skyrim, whatever race I choose, whatever the persona of my toon, I AM THE [censored]IN DRAGONBORN.
In oblivion, I was not, say, the son of the emperor... I was a prisoner, who got lucky, escaped, decided to give a [censored] about the apocalypse and was slighty better at swordfighting/magic/whatever than the average, got even better, then managed to save the world. But I feel like I earned it, I was part of a big thing, but not a semigod [censored] like the dragonborn is.
This is what I don't like about this approach of bethesda, I want my common-manliness back... I want to be a brave soldier (whatever your style) of skyrim, a true hero, not just a lucky guy with special blood and super powers.
I loved the previous sandbox games of bethesda, but here I feel more like my character is superman/batman, only with dragons and arrows to the knees. I want my [censored] looser of a prisoner back !
In Oblivion you knew you were someone special after your conversation with the Emperor in the tutorial. In Skyrim you have to complete 3 quests before being sent on the 1 where you'll discover you may be Dragonborn. Plenty of opportunity to decide not to follow the MQ. This was handled much better than Oblivion although like Oblivion once things get going there is a constant urgency about moving on to the next thing which means unlike MW it feels wrong to take a pause part way through the MQ.