.... If she's going to blow up and act the fool over him moving on after she said was "into him" and then "undecided" ... means to me that she's nothing but a drama queen. And who wants drama?

Edit: Oh wait.. they're in high school... Lord, I don't miss those years at all!

Who isn't a drama queen in high school?

It really depends on the relationship. If it's a matter of letting go of unnecessary drama then I agree with you 100%. However, if it's a long-term relationship I think you need to set boundaries. The more you give in when you're not wrong the more it reinforces that unbalanced aspect of your relationship. It's better to spend a day or two in the doghouse than to establish a dynamic in which you do not have a voice in a long-term relationship, IMO. The OP is nowhere close to being in a serious enough relationship to need to worry about that, though.

I will say this, though: if you're dating a girl that is absorbed with what others think and can't make decisions for herself, get out. You don't want to deal with that roller-coaster...especially in a setting like high school.

I laughed so hard. And I'm sigging this.

High school is a time when you're allowed to be in roller-coaster relationships. All high-school is is preparation for college, which in itself is preparation for the real world, and the latter is the time in which you should actually start to consider what you want in a relationship. Other than that...you're young in high school, and you're allowed make mistakes. A lot of mistakes .

Doesn't really matter. any female friend or relationship of any kind anyone has will just end and you'll feel like crap...

lol Yeah, that's why I edited it. I just don't understand that crap.

Girl A was very indecisive and you didn't get to know her it seemed, you got to know her friends. If there was something there it would have been expressed by now, not just the mixed signals you were given. Girl B seems like she likes you for you and there is no friends to get in the way and you hit it off with her more. Leagues don't matter, trust me. I've been dating a girl way out of my league for 6 years and I still get crap for it, but they should not be the deciding factor. It's about which person makes you happier. If I were you, I'd be happier with Girl B. And you never know what could happen. High school is a learning experience and you're still very young. I'm still learning things about girls and I've been out of high school for 5 years. Girls are difficult. They don't tell you what they're really thinking and believe me if you screw up once, you'll hear about it for years... but that is a story for another time. I wish you luck, Padawan.

I would go with Kaela, it just seems right to me.

Tell her the truth. The friends she had told you she didn't like you.

Just remember... if it doesn't work out and you get down in the dumps, thinking that life couldn't get any worse, just put in Mage Knight Apocalypse. Bonus if you have Vista.

Women ruin everything if you let yourself get caught up in their scheming. It's easy to rely on girls' friends for help and advice, but it almost always just screws things up in some way. The solution is simple but difficult: you just go for her and do not involve or rely on her friends in any way.

It's okay to talk to your friends, and its okay for her to talk to her friends, but do not cross the line. The same goes for girls interested in guys, in a different way.

Presley is the better choice IMO but that is up to you. What you do is just try to talk to her, then if she's mad you apologize and explain and tell her you want her and don't care about Kaela anymore. Say you were scared you lost her, those are magic words

Vanessa obviously wants you and sabotaged your relationship with Kaela for her own gain. Presley was part of her plan to ruin you so she has you all to herself.

Secretly ask out Vanessa, it's your only choice.

So, I take it they won't go for a threesome?

There's a saying; "If you ever fall in love with two people, pick the second; because if you were really in love with the first, you wouldn’t have fallen in love with someone else."

I lol'd, currency is way more friendly, but wanted by too many

You got tricked by hormones, but Kaela doesn't seem like she can stand on her own two feet if shes relying on her friends advice and opinions regarding a relationship with you. Stick with the new girl, you both seem to be happy so stick at it. Dumping her now and jumping to Kaela would just make you look like a dike, but a playa at that...Hmmmm

This makes complete sense

..and my work is done here, once again

mostly because there was no work to be done.. at all.

it's all done..

Presley went and did all of it already..



Well ain't that a pickle.. now what am I gonna do with this -if I do say so myself- utterly brilliant, insightful and dare say heartfelt advise.

I guess I'll save it for the next soul retching case of romantic discourse that occurs..










..any minute now.



g'luck, dude

Do what you like ...

Kaela is overreacting, and i she cannot talk to guys she likes on her own then that is a lesson she needs to learn.

Vanessa could be the one making these misunderstandings. She could have misunderstood what Kaela told her and ended up telling you that she was losing interest.

Presley sounds like a great girl. You have things in common, you can communicate properly and she can see past screw-ups and wants to give you another chance.

chemistry is important, go for presley, you're shallow for even considering kaela

You speaking from experience?

He's not shallow. He's just a man.

But yeh, I agree with ya.

MMM THERES THIS GIRL THAT IS SOOO POPULAR AND SOOO BEAUTIFUL AND EVERYONE LIKES HER AND STUFF AND I CANT HAVE A NORMAL CONVO WITH HER BUT ITS OKAY CUZ IT WOULD BE SOOOO COOL IF SHE WAS MY GF

OMG, that was exactly what I was thinking!

That'd be awkward. Like Stan everytime he speaks to Wendy *pukes*