On the main gaming PC, a 23", 1920x1080. I should have gotten a 24". I still prefer single monitors, the lines and edges of multiple ones drive me crazy. Tho they are cool and all.
We sometimes hook up PC's to the 50" plasma TV too, since hubs likes to play with a controller/sit on the couch, which is always fun... (we sit about 8 feet away from it I think).
What size would it make me forget I'm just playing a game?
One million?
...seriously, for a 2D monitor, no size is big enough for that. You'd need to be surrounded by a curved/circular monitor with uber sound system and a laser/gun targeting unit (no keyboard) that you use while standing up and moving around for that level of immersion.
But for most people, I think 27" on a desktop is a good size. If you're talking about a TV/couch, bigger the better. 50-60 I'd say.