Also, any tips as far as Turbine Point spending goes? Me and my dad are sharing the same account, so I need to know some good general things to buy with the points, aside from the obvious quest packs.
You'll definitely want to get the riding skill (95TP), which is a per character purchase. Likewise with trait slots, although you'll only have to buy them one at a time at a certain level.
Other useful purchases for me as F2P/premium, besides the quest packs (duh), have been extra inventory bags, currency cap removers, vault storage expansions, and the ability to post items on the Auction Hall. All of those are per account unlocks, which is nice, as they're the more expensive purchases I've made. Quest packs are per account, too.
Which server are you on, btw? If you're on Crickhollow, I've found that people there are generally pretty good about helping one another out on fellowship quests. Plus I'd always be willing to lend a hand, although with my main now at level 38, I might just steamroll all the mobs for you.

I had a lot of trouble at early levels in grouping up and asking for help on quests. My own stubbornness at work, I guess.

That changed around the time I joined my kinship and got to know some of the other players better. Just give it some time--most of the early quests are easily solo'able, which helps you settle into the game.