My buddy is a paranoid schizophrenic. He doesn't know that I know this, mostly because 'he' never told me, the voices in his head did when he was switching medications. His old medications stopped working as intended so he needed something stronger. It took a month to switch over and an additional week for the new meds to kick in. During those five weeks, I saw him decline rapidly into a state unfit for society. He had to take an extended vacation from work because he was...Paranoid, of course. He previously had two jobs. One as a mechanic and the other as a bounty hunter. Due to the second job, he had to carry a pistol. On more than one occasion during those five weeks, I've talked him out of rampages and suicides. The methods he previously adapted for dealing with the voices no longer worked as they used to when he was off his meds which effectively made everything he owned useless, and he knew this. Because of this, he destroyed him entertainment system and roughly 17 rubix cubes. In the forth week, he was briefly hospitalized after firing four shots straight up into his ceiling. The hospitalization lasted three days and I visited him for 3 hours each of those three days. There was nothing they could do for him at that time. No medical procedure, no medicine available and no amount of counseling helped in the slightest.
He's now on the strongest meds available for his illness and he's back to normal. Once these meds stop working, which they will, he will be hospitalized permanently. Until then, he's making the most of his life. He has no idea how long he has and he's fully aware of what will happen. He accepts this and appreciates everything everyone has done for him, knowingly or not. He's still working those two jobs and he studies astro-physics in his off time. When he gets bored, he plays with his large array of rubix cubes or builds robots. He's a third degree blackbelt who cannot fight without being charged with assault with a deadly weapon. He still owns his pistol and still carries it with him.
You tell me these places are hell? That's fine. If my friend has an episode and kills people, I think we can all agree we'd rather have had him in hell as opposed to killing those people because the voices told him they were demons after his soul. This has nothing to do with social norms or society trying to make perfectly fine people conform. This is about genuinely sick people needing to be taken out of the public. It svcks, yes, but it's not some conspiracy theory to make everyone the same or ever-faithful robots. Those are ideas born of teenage angst. People are dangerous. Paranoid schizophrenics are very dangerous. To think otherwise is naive. To think someone suffering from this disease is in control is ignorant.
I don't care. it doesn't matter what sob story I hear, they still don't have the right to erase peoples minds with drugs. Every one is the master of their destiny, and to take away their control is to make them no more alive than a rock or a pile of dirt.
and I am not trying to degrade your friend, This is merely what I believe, and will never stop believing. like I said, I expect most people to disagree with me.
Ok, i might be a bit biased because i'm a med student doing my psychiatric internship right now, but at least i'm talking from experience.
Mirglof, It sounds like your view of mental institutions is based more on fiction then the current reality. So yes, in the past there have been some terrible institutions and "treatments" like lobotomy. But that is in the past, today most treatments are evidence based just like the somatic health system.
Some psychiatric diseases however have been described as hell on earth. Losing control of your mind and thoughts is truly a terrible thing (like in schizophrenia described above). The aim of treatment is and should always be to give patient back the control of their mind instead of taking over control from them.
The treatment of depression is indeed with cognitive therapy and medication. However it is always voluntary and the medication given (antidepressants like SSRI's and TCA's) are used for many other illnesses ranging from chronic headache to irritable bowel disease. Seeing people who have severe depression, not able to experience joy in anything, thinking about suicide, and then being able to help them is truly a beautiful thing.
So try giving it a chance.
Never compromise, I would fight it with every fiber of my being. That is not "help" that is taking away the validity of some ones existence. I would rather escape into madness and into complete inability to be aware of what is happening. than to be just aware enough that I have no control.