Totally Agree! I have like over 1000 hard saves. I save my game every 15 minutes IN ADDITION to the auto saves. How in the world do you log out of the game without making a hard save first? o.0
As for sorting my characters: I keep 5 hard saves per character (thinking of expanding that, though), so the breaks in the numerical sequence are where it changes characters. I also keep my very first save, which was made just before the character generation screen; this lets me start a new character without having to sit through the long cinematic each time. Named saves I reserve for a special purpose: I use them to denote the end of a character's career, since at that point I delete all other saves for that character so that his/her story is set and cannot be changed.
