So far, this game isn't wonderful. I was SO looking forward to Skyrim after loving Oblivion. So far I'm quite disappointed. But maybe it will get better.
I finally managed to get out of Helgen and that cave thing. Except I can't figure out how to wield my weapon or shield! I've got the control pages open in front of me and don't see where it says how to do these things. I've tried every possible key and combination of keys and mouse buttons to no avail.
Also, the ESC key does NOT pause my game. It doesn't do anything.
Help?
It sounds to me like your default key mappings have gotten screwed up.
Try this -
1. Go to your My Documents\My Games\Skyrim folder and delete the Skyrim.ini and SkyrimPrefs.ini files.
2. Launch the game - it will create new .ini files. The default key bindings should be restored.
If that doesn't work, try verifying local files through Steam.
1. Right-click Skyrim in your game library and select Properites from the menu.
2. Select the Local Files tab, then select Verify Integrity of Game Cache.
3. Steam will check your installation and replace files that don't match the defaults.
4. Launch the game and try out your controls.
Hopefully this helps.