It's just the fact I got this TV was around 1.3 Patch and the game looked damn near like PC graphics, noooo lie.
I don't think you know as much as you think you do.
First of all, I doubt the PS3 graphical reduction conspiracy to "help" the system run the game is true because the issue didn't have anything to do with graphical quality or the system's ability to render anything. It was, in all likelihood, an oversight involving the PS3's odd architecture and Bethesda's shaky coding (especially involving save files).
Secondly, an HDMI cable can not ruin your TV. I don't know if someone told you that or if you deduced it yourself, but that doesn't make sense.
As far as the video is concerned; don't mask an attempt to validate yourself as a genuine question. People hate that. If you know you're right, then don't ask. Personally, my game on all platforms looks
better visually than the video. Skyrim looks especially good with warm, full colors. Of course, graphically, there's either no difference at all, or the Kinect video has some slight edge that I'm not seeing. Either way, you should calm down.