Same here. I think that changing your character's entire face and even skin color after you start the game is not something I'd want, not realistic.
If the option existed, but you didn't use it, yet it made other people (who's game has absolutely zero connection with yours) happy - would it bother you? As for it not being realistic, what point are you trying to make there? It's a fantasy game. Following your logic it would also be unrealistic to have the ability to choose your looks in the first place.
Maybe not as something as over-the-top as full-blown plastic surgery--*coughsaintsrowcough*--but something like a local coiffure that can change your hairstyles/dirt/war paint. That would be nice. And perhaps you could have region-based hairstyles or war paint that way, too.
Other than that, it would be kind of unrealistic. The people of Tamriel aren't as shallow as we are. Though I suppose if you really wanted to change other features you could sacrifice crap to a Daedra or something.
Again, there's many unrealistic features in the game already; for example being able to run whilst 'carrying' multiple suits of heavy armour and a horde of battleaxes. Being able to enjoy a three course meal during a fight... It's a game.
I'd personally just be happy being able to access to character creation screen again via a menu option, however if it had to be 'justified' in the land of Tamriel as a gameplay feature, then magic would be the obvious way to implement it. Jagar Tharn used magic to impersonate an emporer for many years, therefore being able to change the way you look wouldn't necessarily conflict with the lore, or the possibilities of Tamriel magic.
Oh and my Wood Elf is very shallow where her looks are concerned.
OB let you play a little before deciding if you want your character but it was only at the beginning of the game. Many of you get bored with your character halfway thru the game and want to change them but dont want to restart...try spending more time in character creation before hitting 'done' and you might avoid this problem.
Some of you get bored regardless and expect beth to help you...i would like to change hair and age mid game but im fine with the characters i create
For me personally, it's nothing to do with boredom. I'm not bored of my character's looks; however after 6 month's of play I've realised there's aspects of my appearance which could do with tweaking, which would leave me completely content with my creation. I've spent over four hours on the character creation screen before (most of that time spent away from the screen, coming back, tweaking, going away again etc - so I can see it with fresh eyes). There shouldn't be that emphasis on it being a one-take deal situation, it's not fun to be under the pressure of perfection. What's more people want this as a feature for roleplaying reasons too - adding scars after battles, ageing their characters, perhaps following a character from a scrawny squire all the way up to a legendary hero retired after a lifetime's worth of adventures. There's many reasons people want this, I think it's a lot more about being content, than being bored and fancying a change because they put no effort in from the start.