My wife isn't a gamer. She plays games. But not real games. She plays games on her Android phone, she'll play those cutesy games on the Wii, but other than that. Nope.

I play games that involve me killing things. She plays games like that Mickey paint game.

My wife is a gamer (playing an MMO is how we met), and so was my last ex, but games are only one of many interests a person can share with another, so I never valued any one interest too highly, as it's quite unrealistic, and values an interest over the person their self -- making it, to me, something more equivalent to a fast food menu instead of accepting another person for who they are and what interests they have that comes along with said person.

Hey now, that Mickey paint game is Epic fun.