Don't get me wrong, I never like to see something eliminated entirely. I was simply stating that I didn't like how it was in Oblivion, and was glad that I wouldn't have to deal with it in Skyrim. I would like to see an improved version. In fact all they would have to do in Skyrim is make your armor and weapons not wear down so quickly and it would be a lot better than how it was in Oblivion.
and, you did say that in your post. i did notice that, lol.
i guess it's just becoming painfully obvious that skyrim has created a clear divide in the rpg genre: those that love the roleplaying sim-ness of skyrim and can overlook its glaring faults over the character-based rpg mechanics of the past that many of us want back.
personally, i feel all rpg's need to advance the gameplay mechanics and continue to be creative, while, adhering to a rpg-character based gameplay having top priority over player skill-based gameplay.