This.

Totally would. I'd even allow them to close the door :hubbahubba:

Sure. Whether they're just friends or otherwise, I'd appreciate my child being open with me.

Yeah, just because a guy is friends with a girl people seem to think "You two goin out?" it's getting really old..

Yeah, I get that a lot considering a lot of my friends are girls. (Not the majority, but still a lot) But to be quiet frank, save for perhaps one or two, I'm not interested in any of them romantically, and the ones I was interested in, they weren't interested in me which I understood fairly quick and now I'm comfortable with just being friends.

But it can definitely get embarrassing for both the guy and the girl. And pretty heated if a guy has an actual girlfriend at the time as people talk and word gets around. Not a fun situation to be in, experience talking here. :shakehead:

It's not like your parents can do anything to stop you. Just ignore them and do whatever you want. It works for every wild teen out there, why not you? Remember: Rules are for svcker-fools!

I misread the title for "sixiest" parents...

My parents did the same thing, but its usually because I didn't bring girls over to my house often...mainly because my family is quite judgmental so any relationships I had stayed outside my house. So when I brought a girl home, my parents figured that there must be something special about her.

My parents are pretty liberal my girlfriend has stayed the night at my house several times. Well they are now at first they where really like judgemental about me bringing girls or anyone around. Which is why I never did but when I brought my current girlfriend home my family loved her so its all good.

Well the way I see it, if I had a daughter I would want to make sure the guy isn't some hair-over-the-eyes lip ring wearing wanna-be emo sissy that thinks its a good idea to walk around eighty degree weather in a black jacket and pants.

Then maybe make a few things clear about what goes on and what happens if some rules are violated. Other then that, one way or another if people plan to have six, they are going to. I would rather be able to make sure nothing that could mess up lives is going on rather then just say, "NO! WONT LETCH U"


Now assuming I have a son. Awkward story time will be fun...

I am obligated to point out that my parents are, infact, not sixy.

My mom has never met any of my girlfriends, not during or after the relation ship. I have never told her any names and I never will, its none of her business.

Well sure i would! I would throw my son a condem and say "go get'er, champ". Then afterwards we would sit down, have a beer, then talk like best of friends about his experience, after a good father-son high five that is.

Would you treat your daughter the same way?

That's a really good question actually. Me personally, I would allow my daughter to go to her male friends place, but for a sleep over only if I've met the young man in question and thoroughly anolyzed every last detail. It's been done to me, why can't I do the same?

That happened to my best friend and me all the time. Finally, I think they ingrained it into our heads so much we decided to give it a try. It works! :laugh:

When I was in high school, I dated more than one girl who had parents who were former hippies.

In both of those cases, the parents let me stay over. It was usually kind of awkward talking to their dads the next day and eating breakfast with the family LOL

I don't plan to have any kids, but if I did, I guess I would prefer that my daughter or son were honest with me about it. It must be tough to be a parent of teenagers.

What I used to do was tell my parents that I was going to one of my male friends' house. I'd put my xbox, small TV, and a few games in my car to make it look legitimate, but I would always go to my girlfriend's house. Nothing sixual ever happened, but my mom would be a stickler on the idea of me spending the night at a girl's house at age 16. My dad, on the other hand, wouldn't care simply because he gave me the idea of putting my xbox in my car to make my story fool proof. :goodjob:

I don't plan on ever having children, but if I was a parent, I would definitely trust my son to stay over at a girl's house, or her stay at our house. If I had a daughter, I'd make sure I knew the boy and his family pretty well so I could judge where their character lies more accurately.

God that had to have been awkward. When I was 16 I went to a girls house and we made out and almost got into it but her mom came and asked for something and then that was awkward. Later ate dinner with her family and it was all just quiet. Nobody said a word.

I read the title as sixiest parents

I am disappointed :sadvaultboy:

If I had a boy and he wanted a girl over I would let her stay the night, in a spare room, after having them at the house a few times first - same as I would with a boy.

If I had a girl and she wanted to stay over at a boys place I would scrutinize the hell out of the boy in question, meet his parents and even then still be extremely suspicious of the guy.


Brilliant!

Well yeah thats awsome and all but I'm actually not allowed at her house either, her parents think I'm a neo-nazi... hahaha

Wow, that's an interesting situation. Usually one set of parents is lenient on things like this.

I suppose it's safe to assume that you haven't done anything that would make it difficult for both sets of parents to hold you trustworthy. That being said, either you or the girl in question should sit down with them and get to the bottom of this. The worst thing they could do is say, "Just because," and as teenagers, you're completely entitled to the right to continue pressing the parents until a legitimate answer is given.

Well my parents always pretty much say "Just because" but just because of the way I look her parents dislike me haha

For your parents, just straight up ask them what they're thinking will happen if the girl stays at your house.

For her parents, ask her to do the same, and if she tells you that it is in fact because of your physical appearance, the only advice I can offer is to find a way to convince them to look passed it.

Alternatively, you could put a stripe of doom in your hair.

Whats the stripe of doom...

If you follow MMA, or just watch Bully Beatdown, it's the swooping stripe that Jason Miller has in his hair. His is red, but it can be any color you want.

Mine's neon yellow. I did it for my brother's first homecoming football game in high school, and I've been rocking it ever since. :mohawk: