No friends due to illness? :\ People you know must be mean.
I'm a nerd, but TES didn't make me one. (well kinda did lol.. been playing since like 03..)
I have more friends than I can keep in touch with, and not being all that modest, I don't usually have any difficulties with teh womenz (let me make the distinction that I'm not saying I'm a ladies man, but that's almost entirely out of self control/personal beliefs).. but I'm a huge nerd. RP is the bomb, and high fantasy is like my bread and butter. Seriously.. going to school for computer engineering, total nerd. I may not in appearance seem to fit in with the rest of my peers considering they look like they have spent the last decade of their life indoors and playing video games.. but I indeed HAVE been indoors the last 10 years and playing video games haha (when I'm not out with friends of course

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Edit: I realize this post may sound super [censored], but just realize I don't generally think overly high of myself, and I was only being 100% honest for the sake of the conversation.

Oh and I generally don't give a crap if people think I'm a nerd.. although me loving Star Trek: TNG and playing high fantasy RPG's all the time isn't usually what I lead with when meeting people haha.
Edit 2: Oh and OP, I have plenty of friends who are also like 10x as nerdy as me, and I love them to death. Being a nerd these days is like being Black. The people who look down on you are primitive jerks who need to get with the program. (although admittedly, having dark skin is a lot less defining than being a nerd.. so it's definitely still worse to discriminate bc of color lol (in the sense that those discriminating are complete idiots))