Sorry, I can't believe anyone who tells me that they can role play in a game where half the conversations only have 2 dialog options.
Unless you have a radically different version of the game then mine, I just don't see how this is possible. Of course, you and I define "role play" in very different ways.
It entirely depends on what you mean by the term. If you mean "have a character concept and role for the character I'm playing", then sure, I role play. I refuse to try and do everything with one character and I think the idea of respeccing and being able to undo perk decisions you made two months ago is ridiculous. Last character I played was a good guy, a Nord warrior. Next character will be a ridiculously EEEE-VIL warrior/necromancer/fire mage. Each will act according to their character.
But if you mean "pretend to have meaningful conversations and relationships with the pseudo-people I see in a video game" then no. There isn't a person there. To the extent that role-playing is acting, you have to have another actual flesh-and-blood person on the other end to do that sort of role-playing. You can't role-play - not in that sense of the word - opposite a pile of ones and zeros. You can't role-play opposite an algorithm.
This is why I see the marriage stuff as being inherently a road to nowhere worth going. Bethesda didn't implement marriage poorly; they made a poor decision to implement something that
can't be implemented anything
but poorly. Am I supposed to care about an e-wife that doesn't actually exist? I could role-play marriage opposite a real flesh-and-blood woman playing a fictional character; I can't role-play anything opposite an algorithm whose response is EXECUTE MARRIAGE BEHAVIOR PROCEDURES - SUBROUTINE LOVE-CHIT-CHAT - RECITE LINES - PLAY SOUND FILE "Oh darling, I was so scared while you were away. Never leave me again, dearest!" - EXECUTE ANIMATION: "KISSYFACE" FOR 00:03 THEN IF NO USER INTERRUPT END ANIMATION SUBROUTINE - RESUME IDLE CYCLE SUBROUTINE: SIT_IN_CHAIR_AND_EAT_BREAD_REPEATEDLY...
See what I mean?