These complains are probably the reason why spears and other weapons have been removed from the franchise. They have a very different size from other melee weapons (around which the melee combat system was designed) and would no doubt cause clipping issues. Which break the immersion for some players, who than complain about it or mention it constantly.
I'm all for an immersive experience but there is only so much you can do about clipping issues. With different bows and arrows as well as different sized NPCs to hold them you just cant have one size that fits all. Something has to give, and it causes a minor clipping issue.
isn't, you know, being able to see yourself from behind the bigger immersion breaker here? or do you rp a mad sorcerer deep in his cave controlling the dragonborn through his magic orb?
Some people can roleplay a character from a third person perspective, I do this as well. In fact, very old RPGs had couldn't be played any other way. So your character can be viewed from a third person perspective as long as it is believable. I can understand how a massive clipping issue can be distracting, although IMO this doesnt count as such.