nvidia even has a section about skyrim on their site, my card is compatible on both bethesda and nvidias list. Mentioning once again the brand new driver plus three in the past. I think I can blame bethesda when millions of other users are getting CTD's. That's just dodgy coding, if it weren't for steam and the ability to update, they would have done it right from the beginning like oblivion. Steam is ruining games for us. Not to mention I can't play it when I Don't have internet. I know they need to protect their software and all but thats also a pain. I'll try clocking to "normal" not what BFG Tech set it to and get back to you guys.
Your card is compatible, yes. However the card could be failing, or be dodgy. You could have corrupted drivers, or simply drivers which don't like your configuration, to which trying others will help. I had weird artifacts, low performance and the same driver failure message when I was using a driver that just didn't happen to like my PC. Swapping drivers fixed it. Like others have suggested, you could also have a dodgy PSU or other components which contribute to the issue.
Every game is going to crash at some point. Bethesda games have always been notorious for CTDing, sure. However, crashing to desktop is not the same as a driver failure message. Games don't cause that, drivers and hardware do.
Oblivion was pretty bad for CTDing when it came out, and has been patched to hell. Fallout 3 still crashes and it's not a Steam title. I'm not quite sure what you're blaming Steam for, or how it's ruining games for us. And you can play when you don't have the internet. You go into offline mode.