Torygg wasn't unsure about who to side with. He was loyal to the imperials. He made it clear since day one that Skyrim has and always will be in the empire. What I meant was that he admired Ulfric and I'm pretty sure it's said by several npcs that Ulfric could have negotiated more before he ran in throats-blazing. Ulfric and him and could have come to an understanding. Even if they didn't, his actions would be more forgiveable if he tried harder to negotiate.
Negotiate what, exactly? If Torygg is determined to be loyal to the Empire and content to let Skyrim remain an Imperial province, with all that this entails under the current status quo, then from the position of someone who desires to bring about the exact opposite of that there is nothing to negotiate. What understanding would they come to? One in which Torygg assures Ulfric that sometime in the future it will all be better because the Empire is eventually gonna take it to the Dominion again and the WGC won't matter any more? That's not a negotiation, it's just telling Ulfric and others like him to accept the same old same old for another undefined period of time that will come to an end only when somebody down in Cyrodiil finally gets around to it. They've had 25 years of that already, they're not gonna "negotiate" for any more of it and if he is as loyal to the Empire as you say, then Torygg has nothing else to offer them.
Saying that there is no question about Torygg's loyalty to the Empire doesn't leave any room open for negotiation, from Ulfric's standpoint it rules it out completely. The whole point of the secessionist movement is that they're done waiting for the Empire to act, and want to be free of the restrictions that being an Imperial province places on them. If Torygg isn't able to offer them anything but more waiting then as far as they're concerned a change of leadership is the only way to go.
Just because something is tradition doesn't mean it had to be done. True nords use their discretion when it comes to these duels, and know when they'd be unessesary / unfair / would plunge the nation into chaos. If that weren't the case, then few high kings would make it to old age, because someone would challenge them because they're "too weak to rule".
It's not just about being "too weak to rule," it's about being unfit to rule given the current situation. If there had never been a Great War, if the WGC had never been signed, if the Thalmor were not a very real once and future enemy whose agents are currently enjoying the run of the country and the freedom to abuse its people for their own ends, it might not matter if Torygg were more or less experienced or more or less loyal to the Empire or more or less willing to put up with the Thalmor setting up shop on his doorstep. But the situaton is what it is and nothing else, and so those things do matter to people who want that situation to change.
Ulfric did this in reverse. He didn't use discretion and he killed a boy whose reign was just beginning. He always talks about how it was him "making a statement" by killing Torygg. So in other words, he took the life of a boy barely out of his teens
Evidence, please. AFAIK there is no specific reference to Torygg's age anywhere. Older and more battle-hardened people calling him a "boy" means nothing, I'm well into middle age and still get called "girl" by people who aren't even old enough to be my parents. And I've seen no one in the game call him a "boy" who isn't already looking for a reason to make Ulfric's actions appear as heinous as possible.
A true nord wouldn't use their own traditions as an excuse to kill a man who wasn't even a warrior.
IMO the fact that Torygg wasn't a warrior was one of the very points Ulfric was trying to make when he challenged him. It's a warrior culture, being a warrior matters, especially for someone who is charged with leading the country. Hell, from what I understand even that milk-drinker Mede led his own troops in battle in the Great War, and to great effect. Could Torygg do the same, when the war that everyone agrees is coming actually occurs?
I hate when people paint themselves as "men of the people" when really they're short sighted and immature. Thats how Ulfric comes off to me. Just my opinion of course, and please dont take it personally like a lot of people do. Just a friendly video game debate haha
It's only shortsighted and immature if you agree that waiting on the Empire to act is the right thing to do. Not everybody feels that way. And I have to say that I was suprised at how impressed I was by Ulfric as a character after I spent a lot of time observing him and in dialogue with him. Most of the stuff that I'd read and heard from his detractors, I just didn't see. I don't see a nearsighted hothead given to frequent outbursts of childish temper when he doesn't get his way, in fact to me he comes across as one of the more temperate and "cooler customers" in the game.