But then why even offer Digital Distribution - it is there to overcome situations like you discussed.
You get paid up front for the game - The ISP get paid for my connection to them to download it - in my case a Telephone company gets paid to keep a line open to my house - Computer manufactures are paid for me to have a PC capable of storing playing and downloading said game. And then I get told after having a game pre-installed - given a release date whoopsiedaisy you're not in the US that game you downloaded *magically* doesn't exist for you - it's all magic pay no attention to the man behind the curtain. Seriously it's like going to a Restaurant buying a meal and then them cooking it and chucking it in the fridge asking you to come back on tuesday because they only serve the meal on tuesdays. Oh but don't mind the people already eating the meal - they get to eat it anytime because they live on X street.
At the end of the day, the bottom line is that there are reasons beyond Anyone's control that often affect stuff like this. You should read more into Summer's posts, as You nor I nor anyone here knows all of the reasons for a game delay like this. To state things like, "brick and mortar stores are going away soon" simply isn't a credible argument, it can never be proven and smacks more of things said out of anger than things said out of reason and logic.
We simply don't know why, and being one of those who works in an American corporation that also distributes product like Bethesda does, there are a thousand considerations that go into these decisions. If it were easy and simple, I'm quite sure they would release it all on the same day - as that's good for Everyone. I would not want to piss-off my customers in this way as it's just common sense. Everyone wants this game, and wants it Now.
But what if there are factors beyond ours and their control? What if there are delays into getting copies pushed overseas fast-enough given that the first wave of production went to the American stores? What if that were the ONLY reason - to ensure that the digtial and store-bought versions of the game came out at the same time in each country? You could be upset with it, but there is no way Bethesda Should allow the game to be released digitially many days before the brick and mortar stores can sell it - that would directly challenge their business model and would hurt game stores - which are Not going out of business soon.
They are doing it right, we just don't understand the reasons behind the delay.