I'm experiencing the exact same thing.
btw, what's up with the ignorance? Now listen, and listen good: I respect people for playing Skyrim the way it is meant, with different disconnected characters etc. However, I, as a PS3 gamer, suffer from a variety of things in Skyrim, and I would as MANY others love this addition.
I mean, when it's optional whether you want to transfer stuff or not, why complaint? If you want to play it without, then leave the option, and if you want to use the option, then do.
We have to tolerate different wishes.
I think it is you who carry the ignorance. what you have been saying so far is, you either agree with me, or shut up.
People have the right to voice their views even they are different to yours, to post your wish on a public forum, you should expect some disagreements. Most of the time you might find that if your idea is good, more people would likely agree with you, by fighting and talk back constructively is not make your suggestion of any greater value.
If you just want make a suggestion and wish with no other opinions contrasts to yours, you might want to consider sending your request to the developer directly.
The game is a single player game and has a story and progression based on the player's action, it would not be a story if you want to take away the fact that your character is a Dragonborn and just want to make the game your WoW simulation.