I do hate how the movement is seen as some man hating thing by the uninformed. I'm not a fan of misinformation in general.
For the life of me, I can't name a single woman I know who doesn't claim to be a feminist. I find this unfortunate, not because I disagree with equal rights and equal treatment for both genders (except for obvious cases where gender kinda matters in the issue at hand), but simply because I have a sinking feeling that the average woman doesn't realize that it's women like THIS woman who leave a lasting impression on men and get associated with the term "feminism." Asking for equal rights and treatment? Sure thing. Referring to men as this oppressive gender that's keeping all women under their thumb and limiting their potential? Erm...that's how society works. Like I mean both men AND women play into it, it's not really something you can change overnight, and in some ways it exists for a reason. I mean, I feel pretty safe in assuming that a majority of men will consider themselves more dominant (sixually) while a majority of women consider themselves happier when submissive. At least, that's been my experience with women I've met.
There's two potentially-good causes that I think are unfortunately led quite horrendously: one is PETA ("animal testing and experimentation involves spraying perfume directly in a bunny's eyes while breaking it's legs so it can't struggle and resist from all the pain.....HOW ABOUT WE ATTACK KFC FOR HAVING DELICIOUS CHICKEN?"), the other is Feminism.
But while PETA is just a bunch of idiots who can't figure out people are more likely to support you if you say "look they're shoving laundry detergent under that puppy's eyelids" rather than saying "how dare you enjoy that delicious chicken, you monster" or randomly throwing paint on coats, feminism just seems flawed at it's core, at least when taken über serious.
Hell, I don't know if anyone knows this, but studies have shown women are more depressed since the feminist movement. Kinda obvious in a way; more equality means more responsibility which means more stress. But yeah, it's not really something that I think the world needs people screaming about EVERY DAY. Go scream at Saudi Arabia, go scream at states that force [censored] pregnant women to have their child instead of aborting, go scream at places that may still have ridiculous rules and standards like women not being able to vote.
But as I've asked before, she's speaking like all of this is a crime that these video games use that trope. My question is: who's the victim? Who is hurt by this trope, if anyone? Are you saying it hurts a woman's sense of self-worth and belief in her own ability when she grows up seeing the princess being rescued? Well I'd bet it'd give young boys a weird outlook on what they're supposed to act like around women if you had them read Twilight before they hit puberty. Yknow what you do? Don't make them read it, don't make them play it. In that sense, ok, it's obviously more difficult to avoid the damsel in distress trope, but you know what you can do? For every damsel in distress game you have them play, give them one that breaks it. Have your young girl play Metroid, then Super Mario, then Wind Waker. Suddenly there's no pattern in the female role so she really has nothing to learn.
Asking ALL of society to change just for this? Incredibly naive. Especially when one considers all the different cultures of the world. For example, I for one can tell you that based on my experiences with russian women, they're (usually, of course) MOOOOOORE than happy to take the submissive role in the relationship. Are you going to tell the entire country of Russia their culture is "wrong," for that? That's absurd, as you're basically judging a culture and a lifestyle you have no experience with.
To me, feminism is a type of idealism. Typically, idealistic views are....not neccesarily unrealistic, but they're things that wouldn't just happen overnight, and would take some work and maybe a bit of luck to get people to listen. But feminism? Wow, that's an out-there idealism that wishes to undo 2000 years of literature, male dominated society and history. It's just NOT gonna happen....ever. Unless you wish to suddenly lie to future generations and claim the first president of the United States was Jenny Washington and the inventor of the lightbulb was Tina Edison.