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Ok, here's my constructive conversation:
I can't take this girl seriously for the life of me, simply because of her outrageously pretentious and lecturing attitude. I've watched some of her videos before, and SOMETIMES there's pretty good content (Smurfette Principle), albeit obviously the girl is just regurgitating everything she learned about feminism in her liberal arts studies or whatever, not actually thinking up any of this stuff herself.
Other times, however? I remember when she said "I saw Mommy kissing Santa Claus" is sixist because it implies women are promiscuous. I just don't even....
The problem with her show is that in a way, it has an agenda. She's pushing the feminist agenda to the degree that she's unable to recognize what art is or WHY it's sometimes portrayed the way it is. For example, I remember she wanted to say the Big Bang Theory is guilty of the Smurfette Principle because there's only one girl who's devoid of personality and only serves the role of being a six object. Two things: Penny definitely has personality, and second, the SUBJECT MATTER of Big Bang Theory is the nerd cliché. You know what part of the nerd cliché is? Not being good with women, so the show itself would seem a little disingenuous to the nerd trope if they had dozens of female friends. Personally, I'd consider the fact that the main characters are all male (for the first couple seasons, anyways) to also be part of that nerd trope, not because there's not nerdy women, but because nerdy women often aren't subject to the same stereotypes that nerdy men are, one being that nerdy women don't struggle to talk to men as much simply BECAUSE men typically take the initiative in relationships in modern society, and you better believe there'll be at least a couple guys asking out literally any woman.
In that sense, there's good REASON why Penny was the only one there: she's a tool to show how the nerd trope interacts with women; there's not dozens of women everywhere because that's not the purpose of the show. The focus is nerds, not women. And sure enough, within a few seasons there's plenty of nerdy women aswell. But she doesn't care. She just has her little checklist and sees that objectively, the show qualifies, and she cares not the reason as to WHY it qualifies. The result is she's there giving this pretentious little speech about how they could've made the show
BETTER (as if her opinion is law) by having it focus more on women and female issues.
FFS I bet you I could play http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9Mse62NFl4 and she would hear it and say it could be
better if it were a duet, with Martha responding to him and talking about what a weird stalker he was or whatever from the female perspective.
THAT'S NOT WHAT THE SONG IS ABOUT!! It's about his perspective on things, it's a song
FOR the creep or the hopeless romantic!
She seems to fail to comprehend why art exists, and views it with an outlook of art that shows female equality as being objectively better than media that doesn't include an equal female outlook. The reason this fails entirely is because art is about a message or idea that a person felt was important enough that it was worth expressing in one way or another. And sometimes? Sometimes these messages or ideas are gender exclusive, sometimes it's a man carrying the message, and sometimes the issue of gender just has jack-all to do with the message itself and therefore detracts from it if she tries to shove gender equality to the driver's seat. She seems to think all art has a duty to ALWAYS involve gender equality; no, no it doesn't. Art is a form of expression, and therefore it can be anything you like. Yknow why Mario saves the Princess? Because it reflects the culture of the time, it's as simple as that. That she preaches for it to be that Mario saves the princess just as often as she saves him? This is a purely idealistic view that's simply alien (in a sense, at least, though not completely) to the culture of the time of it's creation. They don't have a
duty to portray it otherwise, nor would it be any less oppressive or anymore productive if she were to somehow force gender equality into any and all art forms. The result is that her messages, while sometimes true, are simply idealistic rants that one can do NOTHING about. Things are the way they are because that's how things work. What I would like to hear as an alternative to her little finger-waving, headshaking of shame at all these guilty media forms, is an actual
SUGGESTION about how to do anything about it without shoehorning gender equality as the top damned issue of EVERY piece of media, no matter how little that media may have to do with gender at all. Do something productive and name something we can do to change this. I doubt she has any good suggestions, both because I think she's targeted "innocent" media forms in the past with a close-minded outlook, and because she just wreaks of never having experienced life outside of the classroom. Don't just sit there saying "can you believe a
MAN wrote a story about saving a
WOMAN?! The audacity!!" Were you born ****ing yesterday, girl?
But yeah, the fact that she seems to push an agenda at -any- costs along with her pretentious tone just ruin it all. Which is a shame, because ironically, while I've seen plenty of legit criticisms on her videos, there's also plenty of blatantly sixist criticisms too.