@OP, you're oversimplifying too much. Look at Oblivion; eventually it all breaks down to "Do you damage it with magick, or with a weapon?"
In that respect, the base level has not changed. But Skyrim has so many more choices...dual wielding alone expands the choices a huge amount. For example, i never played a Paladin type character before(one handed mace and shield+restoration and shield magicks), but in skyrim it's intense fun. Only heard of a few other people playing it.
Of course, a game can only have so many playstyles. With hundreds of thousands of people playing, it's nigh-inevitable that someone else will be playing the same way as you. But if you worry about it, it's not the game's fault, it's just yours for comparing yourself to other people in a singleplayer game.
I believe you are suffering from "MMOitis", the unstoppable urge to be the most powerful combat character you can be as quickly as possible. That's completely missing the point in TES games, which is why the difficulty slider is, like, RIGHT THERE. If you want to play a character that runs around naked as a vampire during the day and only uses absorb spells to kill his enemies to death, you can go right ahead! Just remember to turn the difficulty down first.
