I actually had a boyfriend once who confessed to finding me extremely attractive because I was well, child sized.
Made me feel like I was valued not for who I was, but that my phsyique made me a legal answer to pedophilia or pedastry. I ended it with him, of course, and I had doubts about men that did find me attractive for quite some time later.
I am so astounded by this post.
Are you seriously saying men can't find small girls attractive unless they are into paedophilia? You can't imagine how stupid what you said comes across to me, my girlfriend is only 5 ft and looks 18 rather than her actual age of 24 mostly due to her small size... (she's looked 18 for the last 5 years) and I can assure you I am not into what you seem to be accusing men of that like small petit girls
And as for you not being valued for who you are because they found you attractive because of a physical trait you have (i.e being small), please don't be silly and have a bit more confidence in yourself. Are you saying you don't find certain physical things about certain men attractive?
You are aware it's possible for someone to find someone attractive for both their physical appearance and their personality right?