Oh, I don't dispute that these things can and does happen for a Dunmer PC. My question is would Ulfric, being who he is, do these things if he had a real choice? Does it not seem out of character?

Indeed, one might be surprised as to just how well we've settled into Windhelm. The district once known as the Snow Quarter is thus named no more. Now, they call it the Gray Quarter, for such is the reality of the Dunmer occupation. The district is now populated entirely by my kind, a victory not lost on its residents.
Oh, but the peaceful occupation goes even further. Thirsty? You'll find no Nord mead hall in the Gray Quarter. But the spirits flow well enough in the New Gnisis Cornerclub. Seeking a respected family? You'll find no Gray-Manes within these walls. But perhaps you'd like to pay a visit to the home of Belyn Hlaalu, descendant of one of the most noble houses in all of Morrowind. Ah, but no. You Nords don't come to the Gray Quarter, do you? You fear our streets as you fear our skin.
So now, "children of Skyrim," you have the truth of it. You may call this province home, but you can no sooner claim to own it than a cow can claim to own its master's field. You are just another breed of domestic animal, grazing stupidly while higher beings plot your slaughter.

Ulfric apologists are hilarious. He could kill their mother & children and they'd find some way to forgive him.

Well, all the evidence in the world is in the Empire's favor. And I have yet to find milk in the game.

Plenty of evidence was provided, and you chose to ignore it. Like a typical dumb Stormcloak yee-haw yokel.

Edit: Inbred. Forgot to mention inbred.

Lol. Now now boys, go find a nice neutral fort and beat each other's brains in.

Please point out the so called evidence. Because I'm pretty sure it all got refuted and you guys started circle-jerking propaganda around again.

The Falmer were poisoned by fungis... By the dwemer, the "dwarven" race.
The nords didn't really do anything about the falmer. xD

I know this reply is late, but the whole "Nords hate all," philosophy stems from how Dunmer are treated in Windhelm. But I will say not all of the Nords [censored]-baggery is uncalled for, some accept outsiders who come in and work like everyone else ect. it's just Ulfric seems to be a jerk, ignoring bandit raids on other races in his hold, but if it's a Nord village then he rally's the men!

Also the Argonian Assemblage. Argonians are simply not allowed to live in the city, and are treated like crap by their employers, who support Ulfric. I always play an Argonian, so that right there was enough to shift my sympathy towards the Empire.

And my last case, is Ulfric's Lieutenant guy. If you try to join as anything other than a Nord he's like, "LOL Why does a LIZARD/ELF/CAT want to fight for Skyrim?" Sure, he's not saying no, and he doesn't want a sellsword, but obviously there are underlying opinions of others races that he has. As compared to the Empire, who don't question your race/intentions, and accept you as if you'd been an Imperial born and raised in Cyrodiil.

They've always lived in the Grey Quarter- according to Niranye, that's because they choose to do so. Skyrim is in turmoil, so sure life is getting harder. It's getting harder for everybody.

You have to listen to everyone, not just one side. There are Dunmer who do nothing but sit around in their club and complain about their situation. There are others like the shopkeeper and the Hlaalus who are doing just fine and making a good living, even employing Nords, or the farm worker who says his family gives him grief because he works for Nords. The Dunmer are not innocent lambs. They've helped to create the conditions they're living in.