I find that the thinking in Skyrim is a bit more tolkenish rather than D&Dish. The idea that your a "mage" and he is a "bard" and that guy over their is a "Warrior" is all very sort of class / role based thinking that really doesn't have a place in Skyrim. In the same way Ghandalf would whoop your ass with a staff or Anwen would slice you up with a sword, mages aren't really just mages. Skyrim character mechanic seems to be geared towards players sort of building a character with more flexibility than "Im a mage, I never swing anything.. period". If your a mage, great... that doesn't mean you have to exclude the use of a dagger with a few skills behind it to give it some umphf, or a mace to bonk a guy to buy you some time.
I think its fine that players want to challenge themselves and try to play the game without magic, or without learning to use a bow or something, but expect that to be a greater challenge than if you simply embrace the game mechanic as a whole and diversivy as the game is sort of designed for you to do.
In my original post, I did declare I'm talking about a pure mage, someone who uses magic only and wears all cloth and nothing else. I have a battlemage that can dropkick most enemies (battlemages usually wear heavy armor, usually a 1h weapon and a shield, in addition to their magic).
I'm also talking about the system itself being horribly boring and confining without a spellcrafting system when compared to Oblivion with a spellcrafting system. The insulting part is there are so many stories with the npcs about them researching and creating their own spells, yet we do not get to do that ourselves anymore.
I find the L2P responses to my post, also stupidly insulting. I've played the hell out of mages in practically countless games prior to this, and I'm well aware that a mage has to use all of his tools to be effective, and to do otherwise is equivalent to fighting with your hands tied behind your back and trying to break your opponents knuckles with your face.
Overall, in response to the many responses in this thread, I think some of you are bald face liars, and some of you have figured out how to make it work well for you, which with my mage I definitely did not. One other caveat, I did *not* do anything with conjuration at all, as my character's "story" is that he was Nord, having lived in Cyrodiil for a long time and now returning home, knows that Nords by and large still hate magic and still carried his own prejudices against summoning for that reason, and so would not insult his countrymen by summoning.