Get an ugly girlfriend. That'll make the slightly less ugly girls jealous. Then dump her for one of the slightly less ugly girls. That'll make all the slightly less less ugly girls jealous. Repeat until you're at the top of the food chain.

Ok, serious post time.

You say 'hot girl'. What does this mean? If you're talking purely about how they look, then my answer is simple - pay for a prosttute.

However, I'm going to assume you have more substance than that, and by 'hot', you mean somebody YOU are attracted to, on every level.

My advice: be yourself (listen to the sound of a thousand readers cringing in their seats) - but more importantly, be confident in being yourself. Be proud of the person you really are, and let it show. Don't put on an act. Don't try and impress people. Just live your life, and do what makes you happy. You want somebody you're compatible with, right? This is the only way you'll find that person. Just relax, live your life, and enjoy yourself.

Have an awesome personallity (fun to be around, reliable, confident, considerate, etc). Or, given your comments thus far, you may just want to set your sights a bit lower.

We all want what we don't have.

To be quite honest, I wanted the post to be very clear that physical attractiveness in a girl is the most important thing for me. I can cut back or even give up on everything else. Call me shallow, but the reason I want physical attractiveness is because I personally don't have it. We all want what we don't have. And it will definitely help my children to have an attractive mom -- cuz I won't be helping them in that area.

Then I repeat myself - pay for six.

Saying 'have an awesome personality' it a bit like saying 'be 6' 3 and ripped'. It's not that easy, or else we'd all be awesome.

Are you physically unattractive or are you just unattractive in general? I would say that if you are physically unattractive then you can attempt to appear more attractive, the illusion of confidence goes a long way. Better yet, have actual confidence, it'll be more convincing.
Even if you have an unattractive personailty to go along with it you can always change. Or maybe you aren't looking in the right place.

You don't.

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To be quite honest, I wanted the post to be very clear that physical attractiveness in a girl is the most important thing for me. I can cut back or even give up on everything else. Call me shallow, but the reason I want physical attractiveness is because I personally don't have it. We all want what we don't have. And it will definitely help my children to have an attractive mom -- cuz I won't be helping them in that area.

This takes care of it -- but only as temporary fixes. I need something long term. I want to reproduce and not be weeded out by Natural Selection.

Guys you can all stop [censored]ting. There are two golden rules to getting a "hot" girlfriend:

1: Be attractive
2: Don't be unattractive

OP, grow up. It's time to settle for some equal or lower than you or die miserable and alone.

Are you physically unattractive or are you just unattractive in general? I would say that if you are physically unattractive then you can attempt to appear more attractive, the illusion of confidence goes a long way. Better yet, have actual confidence, it'll be more convincing.
Even if you have an unattractive personailty to go along with it you can always change. Or maybe you aren't looking in the right place.

For starters, find a better word to describe her than "hot".